LOVE.......a b c d e......well rest is undefined

Well i was very happy for my friend who came

and told me - "Yaar, I fell in love ? "

I said - "Fine".

But before we could even celebrate, he came and announced

"I am not in love now"

Well my reaction was not different from the earlier one.

I said - "Fine".

I did not want to give him any unwarranted advice on this, because people become deaf in such situations.

However the whole thing forced me to think about Love .

I was forced to go across waters which i have never been into.

Why do people FALL IN LOVE ??

Well i say " if you fall then its not love,

because if you are in love then u will not fall but stand in the

strength of love"

When i closely examined my friend's case, which speaks about many similar cases

i feel that my friend was never in love, he just wanted to be in love.

His desire to love and to be loved , pushed him to something which he mistook as Love.

One thing i tell you, never search love, let Love search you !!

And when LOVE find you, you will stand in it.

Because True love will give strength to stand, and will not let you fall.

We live in a world of words, where everything is put in words and phrases.

So is for LOVE.

Different people define it in a different way but no one can claim it to be

the exact meaning of LOVE.

But still an attempt can be put in, which i did.

I have heard guys saying this " I cant live without you , i will better die"

True love would never want one to die.

It would rather say "I would live for you, if you die".

People say Love is Blind.

but i say "Love is dumb", because it does need words to say

itself. Its just felt.

People say Love changes a person,

i say True love doesn't change a person, it changes the world around him.

And if your Love is changing you, then let me tell you

need to search for the True love in it...

For me Love is like a Chameleon, which can not only transform

itself in different colours but can also give its colours to everyone.

True Love can be a mother to you , when u need care.

True Love can be a father to you, when u need guidance.

True Love can be a friend to you, when u need support.

True Love can be your biggest encouragement as well as your biggest critic.

And True love can be the Love u need.

And one more thing, i keep saying true love.. true love..

Because i believe only true love can be everything

(care,guide etc) one need, and if

u have something which cant be all this, then you are just

in Love.

to be contd......

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus !! Think about it ????

Well i left the last blog with a burning question.

Which is greatest of all - "Friendship" or "Love" ??

Well before getting into the topic. Lets go around it. Lets try out to define the

best definition for love and then see who defines it the best - Friendship or Commitments

Few days back i was in a library when this book crossed me

It was "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus".

Well i have never been good at reading books so just left the book there.

But while driving back home, don't from where, but the title of the book came back to my mind.

"Men from Mars, Women from Venus"

How would it be if that happen in real ????

Something like this.

Men come from Mars onto earth to meet her Women,who comes from Venus.

Possible ???? Well may be not be in real. But just think of it in a different way .

How about selecting a stranger as your partner.

Someone who has come from Venus

I mean - A complete alien, a stranger.

You just know nothing about her but just fall in love with her.

How could you define such a thing.....

Accident ???

Mishap ???

I say "Adventure and Exploration"

How will it be if u live with a person whom you don't know.

How about living with him and knowing her everyday.

How about getting surprised with every revelation the stranger brings in with her.

Life can never be more adventurous than this.

Such relation are like an expedition whose end point you dont know.

What you know is the start.

You have just started without knowing the route.

You have held a hand which is strange to your touch.

Such relations remain evergreen just for their freshness.

If you ask me- such relation just never get saturated.

With every day they bring in something new, something refreshing, something delightful.

Well this type of relation is not new. More than 60% marriages in India are based on this alien

concept. And what we call them - Arrange Marriage.

Marriages in which you hardly know anything about the person but just for some

reasons just start moving with her. They may start together because of

situations but start walking together

And then start discovering and knowing each other.

Such marriages rely a lot in the individuals.

The way individuals react to every new revelations decide the

course of their life.

Until you wanna know each other, until you have desire to know each other,

life is a nice adventure.

And everyday is like a new day for you.

Well thats how one can define all Successful arrange marriages.

But what about the arrange marriages which fail.

What about the marriages which are more driven by social compulsions and not discovery.

I came across so many couples who start as strangers and remain strangers even after years.

They don't want to be together but fear society.

If Successful marriage are refreshed by revelation, on other side every revelation stamp the soul of few unsuccessful ones.

So what is the answer to such failures- Love marriage ???

Well i will return with the answer to that question in the next blog

The pros and cons of "Love"

Till then keep blogging and Do comment

Who knows ?? our ideas can ignite few minds !!!!!

What drives a relation the best- Friendship or love ???

Sourav Ganguly and Dona Ganguly !!!!

Sachin Tendulkar and Anjali !!

Imran Khan (Jaane tu jaane na) and Amrita

Well i am not citing the celebrity pairs

These pairs have one thing in common.

All these pairs met in childhood, strengthened over the years as friends

and culminated as partners. So was that love or Friendship which drove them ??

I will be analyzing this and relating it to the new world,where the following

is slowly gaining pace

"Love is great, but friendship is greatest"

Catch me in the next blog where i closely put friendship and love in the balance